MMO: Mass-market parenting advice  often stresses the importance of providing a learning-enhanced environment for babies  and toddlers -- and parents who prefer a low-key, attentive style of parenting are  called "slackers." What does the research you reviewed actually say  about the benefits of special enrichment activities for children age zero to  three? 
                Jane Waldfogel: During the 1990s --  heralded as "the decade of the brain" -- a series of well-publicized  events informed parents of new advances in brain science that indicated for the  first time just how much growth was occurring in the early years and how important  early experiences were in that process. While much of what was presented in  this decade was correct, some was over-hyped or exaggerated. 
                One point of confusion has to do  with the importance of above-average experiences versus below-average  experiences. In translating findings from neuroscientific studies, sometimes  results concerning deprivation are used to draw conclusions about enrichment. So,  studies showing slower brain development among rats who are placed in deprived  environments (cages with nothing at all to play with) are used as evidence to  support the idea that providing extra enrichment to children will boost their  brain development. Beyond the difficulty of extrapolating from rats (in cages)  to babies (in their playpens), there is also the difficulty of assuming that  providing extra stimulation will have equal and opposite effects to withdrawing  normal stimulation. It could as well be the case that a minimal amount of  stimulation is necessary for healthy growth and development, but anything beyond  that has no effect, or diminishing effects. Early intervention programs have  been shown to have dramatic effects, particularly when they are intensive and  high quality and when they serve very disadvantaged children. We also know that  placing young children in very deprived environments, such as Romanian orphanages,  can do lasting damage. However, the jury is still out on how much extra  enrichment in the early years really matters for children whose experiences are  in the normal range. 
                These nuances are often lost in the  popular press, as research findings have been rapidly translated into  prescriptions that parents should buy particular toys or learning items, or  should make sure their children engage in certain activities. What infants need  is something more fundamental than the latest toy or CD. After all, generations  of children have developed quite well without ever having seen a black and  white crib toy, or listening to classical music in utero. As the National  Academy of Sciences' Committee on Integrating the Science of Early Childhood  Development concluded, "there is no scientific evidence that any sort of  mobile, toy, computer program, or baby class has a long-term impact on  reasoning, intelligence, or learning." 
                MMO: There's a lack of clarity in  popular parenting culture regarding the concepts and qualities of maternal "attachment,"  "sensitivity" and "responsiveness" -- which are frequently  confused with the practice of "full-time" or intensive mothering. Can  you explain how maternal attachment, sensitivity and responsiveness are defined  and evaluated by researchers? Is there anything in the existing literature  about the effects of fathers' attachment, sensitivity and responsiveness on  children's health and development? 
                Jane Waldfogel: The care that young  children receive from their parents and other caregivers lays the foundation  not just for their physical growth and health but also for their cognitive and  emotional growth and development. Parents recognize this and worry about  whether they are providing the "right" type of experiences and  interactions for their children.   
                The bottom line message from  developmental psychology and developmental neuroscience is that the most  important features of the care children receive in early childhood are its  sensitivity and responsiveness. Sensitivity refers to how appropriate the care is to the individual child, while responsiveness has to do with how  adaptive it is to changes in the child's needs and status. A caregiver may be  warm and well-intentioned, but may nevertheless not provide sensitive and  responsive care if she or he is not familiar with the child or is not good at  picking up cues from the child about what the child needs right now. Conversely,  a caregiver may know this individual child's needs well but if the caregiver is  harsh or neglectful in responding to those needs, the care provided will not be  sensitive and responsive either. So, sensitivity and responsiveness are  attributes both of the caregiver and of the relationship between the caregiver  and the child. Both must be in place if the care is to meet the child's needs  and enable the child to grow and develop. Sensitive and responsive  relationships with the adults who care for them lay the groundwork for infants  to grow and develop, both in terms of cognitive and language development, and  in terms of emotional and social development. This is true of both mothers and  fathers, although most of the research to date has been conducted on mothers 
                In the social and emotional arena,  one of the major developmental tasks for infants is to develop secure  attachments to adults who care for them. Secure attachments provide a sense of  basic trust and a foundation for the infant to explore the world and form  attachments with others. Here, as in other aspects of development, sensitivity  and responsiveness are key -- children can only develop secure attachments if  their caregivers are knowledgeable about their needs and are responsive to  those needs. If parents and other caregivers do not know a child well or can  not read a child's cues, or fail to respond warmly and consistently to what a  child needs, the child will still be attached to them but that attachment will  not be secure. Some children may have an attachment that is ambivalent  (reflecting the uneven care they have received to date), while others may have  a relationship that is characterized by avoidance (if the care they have  received has been harsh or interrupted). These different types of attachment  are diagnosed using a laboratory test called the "Strange Situation,"  developed by Mary Ainsworth. In this test, a mother and infant are brought into  the lab, and the mother then leaves the infant and returns, twice (this test  could be done with fathers, but typically has been done with mothers). The child's  reactions to the two separations and reunions with the mother are coded, and  the attachment relationship is then characterized as secure,  ambivalent/inconstant, or avoidant.  
                The importance of attachment first  came to the fore in the 1940s and 1950s, when researchers began studying  children who were homeless or orphaned during World War II. Reviewing the  evidence on these terribly deprived children, British psychologist John Bowlby  concluded that in order to develop a secure attachment, an infant had to  receive continuous and sensitive care from an individual caregiver  round-the-clock for the first year of life. Bowlby was careful to point out  that the continuous, sensitive care could be provided by a mother or another  consistent caregiver, but his work was widely interpreted as saying that only  continuous and uninterrupted mother care would do. Even worse, it was soon forgotten that the evidence on which  Bowlby based his conclusions came from studies of institutionalized children  (children in orphanages or shelters) who were indeed deeply traumatized by  their experiences, not from studies of children with working mothers. And so, attachment  theory was taken to suggest that working mothers posed a risk to their children's  mental health. Working fathers were not seen as a problem because it was  assumed that it was the mother who would, or should, be there to provide the  consistent care.   
                It was many years later before  researchers empirically tested whether and how infants with working mothers  differed in their attachment relationships from infants with non-working  mothers, and this research did not bear out the dire predictions. Children with  working mothers (or fathers) can develop secure attachments to them, just like  children with non-working mothers (or fathers). The key lies in how sensitive,  responsive, and consistent the parent is.  |